i personally like the miata, but a chick car, no matter how dynamic it is, and fodder for older folks it is. same for the t/c and most civic coupes. (which i owned, an 01 ex in ralley red AND a/t. it was THE ultimate girl car, and all the ladies loved it.

)
and the same goes for my fit. i have gotten countless compliments on my car, mostly from girls, (but attracitve ones no less

) on the fit. the fact that its vbp probably helps.
but i see about an equal amount of folks driving the fit. its kinda nerdy, which i associate as being more of a masculine thing (lol) and i'm nerdy so it suits me. my wife does not look at it as a chick car at all, just a cute nerdy one. she drives an 08 bug and THAT is a chick car. and she loves it.
i say drive what you want regardless of the gender labeling that goes with it. if you happen to drive a chick car, just embrace it.