i would suggest option 2, complete car care kit against the option 1. since its going to last longer. I don't think you always gotta wash the car with good stuff, but rather wax and protect it with good stuff.
you don't really need wheel cleaner, since you could wash the wheels while washing the car, and wax the wheels, like i do.
the option 2 has long term protectant, like plastic care, some interior care, and tire shine i guess.
i use to have a box like that, that came with leather cleaner and conditioner, wash and wax, and tire shine, that came in a wooden box.
love megulars anyways though