Adjust them HIGHER until the SUVs flash at you...
The procedure is NOT in the owner's manual! (Page 186). Just the usual cop-out "have the dealer do it". As if!
Do as Manxman suggested and SEARCH.
Shine the lamps at a wall at about a car's-length away. Both L&R should be equally high. Then back the car away from the wall, the bright spots should drop slightly as you get farther away.
That's it, it's not rocket science.