What JDMChris.com told you were correct. I never got experienced with supercharge anyway, but if I am correct what many people said that supercharge is actually has higher torque at low rpm's comparing turbocharge. Turbocharge need to spool before its activated, that what turbo lag is. Turbo start spooling around 3000 rpm and start giving extra power to the engine. You can really feel it when turbo is active or not. Below 3000 rpm, you just gonna feel like you drive an N/A car. Nice indeed.
Turbocharge usually comes along with their own header and cold air intake, N/A aftermarket header or CAI cannot be used any longer once you install a turbocharge. They have different shape. So if you are planning to install a turbo anytime soon, it would be better if you spend the money for something else that can enhance your turbocharge.
FYI, installing turbocharge need additional parts to be installed, like boost meter, fuel pump, injectors, piggyback, etc. which cost you extra money.
Aftermarket exhaust will stay there, 2 1/4 pipe is good enough for turbo I think. Sometimes bigger exhaust pipe will lose perfomance. If you wanna gain more power, just took the catalytic converter out. Hehe
I dunno anything about NOS, so I can't share anything here...heheh sorry
Upsizing rims is depends on brand and material it is made like JDMchris said. Bigger rims is heavier of course, but if you are looking for speed...16" would be suitable enough. 15" probably too small...17" nice look but will sacrifice performance. If you are looking for 17" rims with turbo, make sure you upgrade your break systems with 4 pot caliper at least. This is for your own safety.
For your reference, VOLK Racing is one of the most popular racing rims. It's made from Forged Monoblock rims which is light and strong. You can try from CE28 to RE30.
SSR also made a very good light rims, but it's not as strong as VOLK Racing cos it's only made from Semi Solid Forge (SSF). Type C for instance. Not the RS, Type C RS is only available from 17" up. It's made from 2 different materials for inner part and outer part.
ADVAN also has very nice rims, I like their RG II type. They've just released RG III version, same style with RG II just different spoke. Wedsports have some light rims, I don't remember which type it is.
I am just wanna share my thoughts here, hope in can help you a bit about turbocharge. Nice to share with you guys...and CMIIW