the muteki lugs will fit, just make sure you buy the correct thread pitch for hondas - 12x1.5. also, inquire about hubccentric rings with your wheel purchase. they help ensure a flush mount against the hub when you put your wheels on.
i really like m7's but they're way out of my budget, j-mags (m7 replicas) are more affordable but super heavy. if you're willing to keep the same approximate weight as your OEM wheels then go for it!
personally, i would buy the polished version over the gloss black face but it's your money, your ride, your choice - i don't think you can go wrong with either of them