I know there is www.hondaautomotiveparts.com but i dont see any 09 accessories from there.... anyone have any more sites?

 

sure,
google Bernardi Honda (a sponsor here) like 33% off for online orders
and College Hills Honda, similar.

 

http://www.handa-accessories.com/

 

http://www.myhondapartsstore.com

 

i couldn't speak anymore more highly of bernardi parts. they've been very helpful with everything.

I've bought.
-All weather mats
-cargo mat
-steering wheel cover
-keyless entry
-bumper applique

all from them with no issues during any of my orders.