Don't have another friend that has a fit to compare. Noticed that the dashboard doesn't sit flush around the pillar that separate the small left window and the windshield. If this the case with everyone else? And if not, is this fixable? Should we take it back to the dealership? We bought the car on Friday.




i also noticed that the gaps for the front bumper connecting to the sides aren't uniform, they start narrow at the bottom and widen as you go higher. Is this the case with everyone else? Is this actually a problem?

 

Both of the issues you mentioned have been brought up in the thread "Quality Issues with new Fit" as well as in other threads. Just search around and you'll find them.
I had the a-pillar gap and unevenness on the dash and the dealer attempted to fix it by replacing the trim piece next to the small window. For a while after the fix it looked good, however, the gap and unevenness are showing again, although to a lesser extent than originally.
Someone posted the following on 06-11-2015 regarding this cosmetic defect:

 

Mine has it too. Dealer tried to fix it once and failed. It looks like the "A" pillar trim is too short/too small. Good to hear there's a service bulletin on this. I'll be back to the dealer this week.

There's a thread here somewhere on the uneven bumper cover gap. Mine is good so far, but I worry that the weight of the bumper cover may deform the mounting clips over time.