The gear change is inconsistent sometimes it's fine smooth other times it's notchy. Any gear oil out there that can remedy this?

Redline or royal purple perhaps?

 

I haven’t tried it but many people swear by Amsoil synchromesh.

 

I’ve used that and replaced it with Honda stuff.

didn’t notice a huge difference, the car just liked having fresh fluid as far as I can tell

 

OEM Honda is best and a good place to start with your issues.

 

OEM Honda. Can't go wrong with OEM

 

This seems to have made it slightly better. I want to stop this car from being blown around on the highway on a windy day.

 

Redline or Amsoil .

 

I put the Acuity shifter bushing in and that didn't really fix it. Then i put the acuity pedal spacer for rev match down shift lol. But when I put the Acuity weighted gear knob and shift boot collar upgrade it seems to help a bit.

But putting some nice oil in the gearbox would really smooth it out. Hmmm. but not now when it's time for a oil change. My other issue with this car is when on the motorway it kinda get blown about by wind...I guess a sway bar at the back would help.

Also maybe some sound deadening in the interior. Apart from that it's not a bad unit.

 

Change with OEM . All Honda/Acura just like Fresh fluid and they'll shift fine.
enjoy the ride

 

Ditto all of the above. We've used either Amsoil or Honda in ours. Both work. Can't tell a difference between them.