GOOD NEWS!!!!!!!!!
Finally got back form vacation and got things straight with Honda and my paint issue. Norm Reeves did good and i already had a case # with Honda N.A. so it sped things up. Im dropping my car of on Monday and will get it back Thursday with new painted and clay/waxed bumpers with lifetime warranty from the dealer body shop.

there gonna strip everything on the bumper then redo the whole paint process from scratch.
theres hope just call Honda NA first then once you get the case going on there go to your dealer...even got a rental for the time without the car.
GOOD LUCK!